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Understanding Self-Harm

August 4, 2016 By 3cfs_Admin

When life is at its most challenging, coping with adversity can be emotional and difficult. Many people resort to self-harm as a way to handle conflict. The reasons for it are complex and varied, and treatment can be a long process. But one thing is clear: it’s not the answer.

What is Self-Harm?

Self-harm is a coping mechanism in which people purposefully hurt themselves, often becoming a habit whenever emotionally difficult situations arise. Cutting, punching, and scratching are common methods. People who self-harm tend to do it in private, hiding scars or marks with long sleeves or pants. Self-harm is frequently inflicted on the wrists, inner thighs, and other easily concealed areas. While self-harm is intended as a coping mechanism, the physical and mental anguish associated with it can actually exacerbate these issues.

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Filed Under: Mental Health Tagged With: Abuse, Self Esteem, Self Harm, Substance Abuse

For Parents of Teens Who Cut Themselves (Self-Harm)

July 24, 2013 By 3cfs_Admin

By Rebecca E. Matthews, Ph.D. | Psychologist

What is cutting and why do teens do it?

Cutting is a form of self-harm that is rising in popularity among teens and adults. Both males and females use cutting as a way to reduce unwanted emotions like anger, anxiety, sadness, and tension. Teens cut when they want to escape a difficult situation and as a way of expressing distress. Some teens use cutting as a way to punish themselves. As a parent, finding out your child has used cutting can be incredibly scary and confusing. It is important to remember that cutting is not the same as a suicide attempt. However, people with a long history of self-harm are at greater risk of suicide attempts, so self-harm behaviors should be taken seriously. Cutting and other self-harm behaviors should be viewed as a sign that a person is in emotional pain and in need of a more effective way to deal with their emotions.

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Filed Under: Teens, Tips for Parents Tagged With: Cutting, For Parents of Teens Who Cut Themselves, Self Harm, Teens, Warning Signs

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